I find a special scripture today, and would like to share with you too (hope it is not too late)
"Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for that is how their fathers treated the false prophets."
A scriptures that remind us to alert what is your conviction of your life - pleasing people or pleasing God?
It is common that in our daily life, we try to please everyone around, fulfilling their needs and requirement.
That is not a bad thing, as it is God's wishes that we love and give to one another.
But after some time, would we lose the focus on God?
"If everything you say is loved by everyone, the odds are good that you're bending the truth" [cited from Ref. below]
To think more about this approach, i think of many people, and found out that everyone in the world are doing so, packing themselves, trying
to look good before every person, but with an resentful heart in their mind actually.
Also the prophets in the old testament, isn't some prophets trying to speak what the King want, instead of the truth? (JEREMIAH 6:13 - 15)
The real love and relationship can accept truth that even they would be wounded.
If we are focusing just what others want us to be, we would lose focus on truth, as bible said ,
今日睇到段好特別的經文:
"人都說你們好的時候,你們就有禍了,因為他們的祖宗待假先知也是這樣" Luke 6:26
"人都說你們好的時候,你們就有禍了,因為他們的祖宗待假先知也是這樣" Luke 6:26
一個要好alert 自己生命的信念
你係要活一個please 人的生命,還是please 神的呢?
有時生活上都好容易想去討好每一個人,their needs/requirement
都會覺得咁做幾好ar, 神都係想我地去付出,去愛
都會覺得咁做幾好ar, 神都係想我地去付出,去愛
但會唔會忽略左神點睇
當我們說的話是每個人都喜愛的話,很大機會你在嘗試扭曲事實!
事實係,world 每一個人都嘗試咁做,咁去包裝自己,but actually 心入面好多resentful 的想法
諗起好多人,諗起舊約的先知,想大家也認識一d 在某人面前恭恭敬敬,但在他背後說三道四的人吧!
真正的愛同關係係能夠包容一些即使令他們FEEL Hurt 的真相的!
當人只focus 去please 人,很容易會lose focus on 真相,所以bible 說
"心懷二意的人,在一切所去的事都沒有定見" James 1:8
He is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.
He is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.
"人若賺得全世界,卻喪了自己,賠上自己,有甚麼益處呢?" LUKE 9:25
What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose of forfeit his very self?
你要做一個Please 人的假先知,定係做一個Please 神,但唔討好人的基督徒?
你要做一個Please 人的假先知,定係做一個Please 神,但唔討好人的基督徒?
Would you choose to be a People-Pleasing Prophets, or a God-Pleasing Christian, which might not gaining others confirmation?
(Reference: Boundaries, ch 6 common boundary myths, #4 If i set boundaries, i will hurt others)
(Reference: Boundaries, ch 6 common boundary myths, #4 If i set boundaries, i will hurt others)
Happy Thanksgiving
Cheers,
Andy
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